When one inserts a finger or thumb in to another's pooper and gets a decent amount of feces on their finger / thumb.

(Gravy fingering) The act of giving a gravy finger.

(Gravy fingerer) Your mom.
My dad gravy fingered me on the couch last night when I was trying to watch Malcom in the Middle.
by Gravyman December 4, 2008
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