Friend of Stefani Share definition Flag A code phrase to discreetly ask if someone is gay, using Lady Gaga's real name. That guy is too cute to be straight. Do you think he's a "friend of Stefani"??????????? Friend of Stefani by Tassel July 20, 2011 0 0 Get merch Get the Friend of Stefani mug. Buy Now — $32.95 See more merch