To orchestrate social or informal arrangements, events, to influence the secondary plans of others (travel / accommodation) on the basis that there is said event to attend, and then cancel, pull-out or bail on entire event, effectively leaving prospective attendees stranded. This can sometimes manifest itself as a "Sorry i couldn't be there in person..." satellite beam-in.
"So then everyone cancelled and it was just me and him there."
"Really? How come?"
"Well the guy that organised the party has a habit and history of consistently Bexing It."
"Man, that sucks."