Somebody that tries to change everything and everyone in someone's life into something they won't love.
The instigator wasn't going to make the guy love his neighborhood any less by getting buildings wrecked or by getting people kicked out of them.
by Solid Mantis May 16, 2021
The kind of person who never gets investigated, because they're always having someone else investigated.
The instigator would always have opponents investigated before they would think to investigate him/her. It was a brilliant strategy, blindsiding people that way.
by Solid Mantis January 23, 2020
by Solid Mantis January 23, 2020
Someone who thinks of himself/herself as David, and the other guy as Goliath in any argument or incident, thinks the other guy is always the argumentative one. Someone who will create drama out of what doesn't matter in life, and where there was no drama.
The instigator carried a couple stones for her slingshot at the beach in case the seagulls thought she was bluffing.
by Solid Mantis December 1, 2019
Trying to force someone to leave or kick them out of somewhere for no reason isn't compassion or tough love, it's not any kind of love, it's being an instigator.
The instigator's babysitter didn't leave him/her with anything to do that day, so he/she went around trying to kick people out or run them off from different places for no good reason, because it made him/her feel tougher.
by Solid Mantis February 24, 2021
The instigator would rather fuck with somebody else's life or talk shit about it than tend to their own.
by Solid Mantis December 3, 2020
The instigator couldn't let the elementary school kids laugh at him/her, so he/she posed as a something they would respect, someone who broke rules, while posing as someone who loved rules to play the adults while trying to get a few of them to respect him/her.
by Solid Mantis December 1, 2019