A wallflower is a (introverted) person whom usually fades into the background. This does not make them a loner or impolite. They are possibly rather socially awkward, yet they know the world around them and are down to earth. They see the good and the bad in everything and everyone. Wallflowers are beautiful and unique souls, whom just don't get much attention.
"He's a wallflower . You see things. You keep quiet about them. And you understand."

- The Perks of being a Wallflower
by Teenage Wallflower Marcy September 27, 2017
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Someone who is quiet,not anti social and friends do not come easy. They usually know everything going on but says nothing. Most likely always on guard because of something in the past. A wallflower are attractive to guys, but usually a turn off to girls. Favorite hobbies are mainly writing,or being outside.
"John go work with Alex"
"Who?"
"She sat behind you every day this year"
"Not my fault, she's a wallflower"
by wallflower23 October 20, 2013
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a type of loner. seemingly shy folks who no one really knows. often some of the most interesting people if one actually talks to them. cute.
I met this gorgeous girl, a bit of a wallflower, but very sweet.
by ugly flower March 11, 2004
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A wallflower: The odd person at a social event/party who stands to the side, fades into the background, as they are too shy to ask someone to dance or no one wants to dance with them; This isn't generally based on the person being appealing in a attractive level.

Though when someone looks through the throng of moving bodies and goes over to this ,presumably, oddity of a person and gets to them they discover they're the most interesting person they have ever met.
“He's a wallflower. You see things. You keep quiet about them. And you understand.” -Stephen Chbosky,The Perks of being a wallflower.
by ϞSᴜᴍᴍᴇʀ Rᴏsᴇ. ϯ February 9, 2013
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Someone who chooses to observe, instead of experience life.

They know a lot about people, what they are truthfully like, how they actually act when they think no one is paying attention.

Since people have little interest in wallflowers, they usually know a lot about people. The good and the bad.

Wallflowers are not mean, or impolite. They are usually pleasant, and respectful- just shy and/or introverted.

Nontheless, people tend to use the word "wallflower" negatively. What a shame.
The shy girl, or guy in high school that blends in- no one really knows them, but they always seem to be there, in the background.

Teacher- "Pass that paper to Jane."
Student- "Who's Jane?"
Teacher- "The girl that's been sitting two seats behind you all year. She's almost in all your classes."
Student thinks to himself- "It's not my fault she's a wallflower."
by Norah Gray August 29, 2010
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the planned activity of attending a party or social gathering and blending into the background; wallflowering is a benign activity for shy people or individuals who enjoy listening in on conversations and engaging in harmless people watching; it is NOT stalking
Jason wasn't in much of a talkative mood so he was going to hit his buddy's party, do some wallflowering for about an hour, and then slip away quietly.
by Sexy Simian December 4, 2010
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someone that's shy but extremely adorable and outgoing once people get to know them. They also have passion for music
Hey do you guys see that guy other there?
Yeah, does he even come here?
Yeah, he's a wallflower, you guys need to meet him!
by Sunmonn January 5, 2014
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