Chowder Wench Share definition Flag chow·der wench. noun. A female who is in charge of eating all a man's chowder. No, not New England clam chowder! Man, that chowder wench sure was hungry! Chowder Wench by NateDizzSevenSeven May 23, 2008 0 0 Get merch Get the Chowder Wench mug. Buy Now — $32.95 See more merch