A man who has figured out what women want to hear, in order to get what he wants.
Men and women have different wants and needs. Neither of them is wrong or bad, just different.
Women have established the rules to the game, which are very misandric
and smart men have figured out how to "play" the game in order to get what they want/need.
Men wouldn't lie if they were able to say what they really mean and still get what they want at the end of the day.
Hating a man who does what he needs to do to get what he needs is like blaming the victim. He is a victim of rules women have put in place. Hating him for this is also misandry
, since men would prefer not to lie, but have not been given a choice in the matter.
He is a player, since he has figured out the rules women have put in place, and has learned through trial and error what works and what doesn't.