Someone who tries to find an out if confronted. One who let's his woman be the shot caller. Someone who talks big but can't back it up. Someone who rolls over when questioned by the police
"I heard he was speakin on my business, when I asked wtf, his wussywillow ass bounced the fuck out! . Homeboy said he was gonna bust that candy on his coupe, his bitch shut his wussywillow ass down. Man ,when he got chained to the bench at the cop shop, he wussywillowed the fuck up.
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.