Woman has all the money, cars, bills, etc. and the guy still tells her where to go, how to do it, who she can know, and any other system of control.
Guy #1: "Haven't you known Shannon for like, 15 years? And she's not allowed to go to your wedding?"
Guy #2 "yeah, well her man won't let her go, he thinks she'll cheat with me on my wedding day."
Guy #1 "Wow, if she puts up with that she must have dumb bitch syndrome (DBS). There's no known cure for that either. Sorry to hear about her loss."