A person who has demasculinized himself to the point that putting on a pair of pink stiletto's would actually be the most masculine thing they have accomplished in life.
Some one who says something like..
Fred Ditzian: "Your really need to read about the Lorraine Code or about Feminine Epistemology in general you'll see exactly why you shouldn't think that believe me you'll thank me later =)"
The person who made this statement is a well defined fag. This person most likely learned to masturbate from another man.