A 'Lelia' is a stark violation of a male's anal privacy. It is when a girl you are intimate with makes a failed attempt to rectally violate you (insert a finger into your ass) without consent. Lelia's mark a man with permentant and irrepairable trauma, whereby should anyone ever go near his asshole again, the reaction will be violent and deadly.
Man 1: "Dude, check out the girl with massive tits over there!"
Man 2: "No way dude, stay the fuck away, she tried to Lelia me last night."
Man 1: "What a crazy bitch"