Every guy may have his specific girl
-next-door prototype, but in general, she's the girl
whom you always admired from afar and were afraid to approach, fearing that
any erotic projection
toward her would ruin her image
as a decent, pure and almost virginal womanly ideal.
She's (in your
mind at least) untrodden ground; unspoiled
by other men and so sweet-natured it almost frightens you to think of her in explicit
sexual situations. Almost. Here's another example: Picture your
friend from when you were kids. In your
mind she'll always be that
who played with
you in the park. Only, when you catch up with
her 10 years later, she's still a cutie
, but all grown up and someone you can trust
and connect with
on so many new levels. The intrigue grows.
Similarly, she could be a friend's cousin whom you met at family occasions over the years. Or even a new employee at work
who is shy and unassuming, but still gives
"she seems so nice, I'd love to talk to her" feeling.