Estrojan

A male who while trying to come across as intimidating is instead perceived as effeminate or gay by his actions or vocal intonation.

Also applies when someone looks like a tool attempting a macho stunt.

(Textually, Estrojan is capitalized.)

Poor Bob tried to put the fear of God into his noisy neighbors but ended up looking like quite the Estrojan.

by J Monty Rivers December 27, 2003