1 definition by bananabetweenoranges

A word for people who have the balls to say what they think that is used by people who don't. Frequently confused with an asshole by pussies, but not the same thing.
ex1:

abrasive person: "I'm not really interested in discussing that with you."
non-abrasive pussy: looks sad and wets their pants.

ex2:
non-abrasive pussy to a waitress: "oh, no, this will be fine"
abrasive person to a waitress: "This food tastes like shit. I'd like to speak to your manager."
by bananabetweenoranges September 5, 2012
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