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a homosexual who doesnt just like recieveing anal intercource or giving it, however they like both at the same time.
Alen: Spencer are you a top or a bottom?
Spencer: I'm upper middle we are going to have to find someone else for this, I need to have 2 men at the same time, its the only way its gonna happen!
by Your bestest friend Anya May 22, 2006
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