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Discord Nitro

A tax you need to pay every month just to use emotes from other servers. Of course there are many other perks to Nitro, but realistically most people like me are just paying for the emotes. Pretty lame, but what can we do?
Time to pay my discord nitro tax 😩
by Mary Mary Quite The Contrarian November 28, 2025
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fuckship

Basically just another term for friends with benefits, where the relationship only consists of fucking and nothing else.
Derp: Are you interested in a fuckship?
Derpina: Sure!
by Mary Mary Quite The Contrarian September 21, 2021
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bussin

This is a catch-all word to express something that's really good, pleasant, cool, etc. It can be used to describe a fancy new car, a 5-star hotel, fine looking ass, delicious food, anything really.
Example 1:
"Man this tropical resort do be bussin, they literally have everything!"

Example 2:

"Yo do you see that ass over there?"
"Yeee, that ass is bussin"

Example 3:
"Grandma's baked mac n cheese is hella bussin"
by Mary Mary Quite The Contrarian November 13, 2021
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sus

A post-2016 slang term that was stupid and uncool until the game Among Us appeared in 2020 and made it cool again. Should only be used with reference to Among Us, any usage outside of that is just cringe. But to be fair I guess most people who say "sus" nowadays have among us in their minds, so ig it's fine.
Someone in 2017: This guy who dmed me is sus
Me in 2017: Stfu stop saying sus, that term is so stupid.

Someone in 2021: This guy who dmed me is sus
Me in 2021: Dang he must be the imposter.
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Lack Toast and Taller Rent

When your landlord increases the rent on your condominium to the point that you don't even have the money to buy a toaster.
My landlord just increased the rent on my condo, now I can't afford that fancy new smart toaster I've been waiting to buy. I guess you could call this predicament "lack toast and taller rent".
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Internalized oppression

Technical meaning: To internalize the fact of being oppressed. In other words, to treat the state of oppression as if it were normal.
Internalized oppression: as the tyrannical king ruled over the country, its citizens have eventually learned to treat the harsh oppression as a part of their normal everyday life, never questioning their freedoms.
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Pillow Talk

Contrary to the top definition, Pillow Talk actually has two connotations.

The first connotation is the most thought of one. It's intimate talk with your romantic partner in bed, either before or after sex (but usually after). It is usually at this moment where all personal thoughts, desires and troubles are revealed in a candid tone. Those thoughts you've locked away during daytime are now front and center, completely transparent to your partner. Pillow talk can really be anything, it can be goofy or serious, but the main distinction is that everything spoken is 100% candid and true to themselves. No pretense, just you being you.

The second connotation is less restrictive and applies more generally. Here, Pillow Talk is referring to the intimate deep conversations between two or more people within a platonic relationship (e.g. friend, colleague). It often takes place in a location that stimulates bonding and conversation. For example, a literal sleepover with your friends can spur pillow talk, or a night out at a pub with your bros. Again, same meaning applies here. The conversations are usually very candid and lasts for hours, no pretense whatsoever.

Overall, pillow talk is a crucial component in relationships and its effect can be very therapeutic.
Example 1(A): During pillow talk, Amy revealed her troubled past with her abusive alcoholic father. His boyfriend consoled her and she felt a lot better.
Example 1(B): See any episode of two and a half men

Example 2: Jake and his buddies had a sleepover and they had a long pillow talk about anxiety and depression and seeked each other's help/advice.
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