Im7's definitions

Delay

When you can't make it to an previous fixed time and you have to delay it for a bit.

Pinv.: We'll have to delay. I can't make at 6 cause mom it's still home and she'll be all up in our business. Somewhere around 7:30 works for you?

by Im7 October 10, 2023

giving up

It's when, after a lot o struggles with a Person, after all the reassurance, the understanding, the love, the promises you've been giving they still choose to hurt you, telling you they are ready when they are not despite your promise to wait until it's sure. 🙂
So even if you know you love them, you have to give up on them because they keep on hurting you, and sometimes it's ok to choose yourself, so you can keep on fighting for survival, no matter how bad it hurts.

Exthatgirl: I'm giving up on you my R., because everytime you're facing the decision to hurt me, you choose to do it and even though I understand you've never been showed real love, so you don't really know how to do it, I wanted to be the person you'd learn with. To heal our hearts, to fight together, but you choose to push me away, again.

by Im7 October 11, 2023

Overthink

It's when you're not sure if this guy you like-like so much actually likes you back or just makes fun of you. Because you're out there speaking to all kind of doors until you question your sanity and never seem to find the answer. He seems to be everything you ever asked for and the beginning of an extended psychiatric exam, both at the same time. So you're kinda starting to wonder if you're not just an overdone joke for people with too much time, if he actually lives where you live, if he really like-likes you like he says, if this is some kind of revenge for something you don't even know you've done. You're starting to feel that you put your heart on the line for something that, the one you're putting out there for, isn't even real. Is it staying out in the cold, talking to "yourself" and to doors, putting everything out there actually worth it? Cause the fears are eating at everything you are, starting to make you feel anxious and lost, like you never left "home". You want to be patient because no-one ever made you feel like that, like you belong right there, in their arms, no-one cared like that for you but what if it's just in your mind?

R: you look sad
L: I'm just overthinking

by Im7 October 8, 2023

You're fine

Something that someone says when they're fed up with your crying

You're fine as hell you motherfucker

by Im7 October 12, 2023

Self-sabotage

Something your brain does to you when you find something your heart feels it's amazing, but due to some unfortunate circumstances and bad decisions on both sides, your brain now tries to distract you from the person/thing you want so much due to past trauma so your heart won't get hurt with all this intrusive thoughts and things that you could do.

Pers1: Hey, how is the thing you have going on with that guy you like so much?

Pers2: I feel like my brain is trying to self-sabotage it, cause it gives me all this intrusive thoughts and makes me say dumb shit, so I'm working on it, cause I really don't want to lose him. I'm trying to understand my emotions and thoughts better.

by Im7 October 9, 2023

SSMH

Stop making me horny. When this guy you're going ballistic for, likes to make you horny and never comes through 😅

L: this music you're playing it's really hot, SSMH, I am at work!!
R: ....

by Im7 October 8, 2023

Boundaries

Boundaries - when someone you share a lot of stuff with, knows a lot about you if not almost everything goes ahead to follow you everywhere and it s not that you don't like it, but the people around get to know a lot about you too. Things you don't like to share at all. Like who you are in your private life, who you love, who would you like to fuck, who makes you horny and how or why and all other stuff that should remain rather private, doesn't matter if I don't care about their opinions or not. I think that there are some things who should remain strictly between partners. Especially if you are quite private with your life and don't like talking about yourself with almost anyone. Opening up with someone shouldn't give them the right to open these to everyone else.

L: I wouldn't care if the whole world would know about us but there are some boundaries that shouldn't be crossed

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by Im7 October 9, 2023