A term used frequently in online chat rooms. When you chat with a girl who puts good angled & photoshopped pictures of herself up to get you to like her. When the meeting occurs, you see that she is in fact way bigger and uglier in the flesh.

A portmanteau of carpe diem, a Latin phrase that means “Seize the Day!” and DM, which stands for Direct Messages. This word means seizing the day via DMs.