a white person who likes hanging around asian people, and tries to asian. sometimes fluent in mandarin, korean, or japanese--or at least tries to be; and speaks it with a barely decipherable accent. this person loves everything asian, and could be seen chowing down in korean restaurants or japanese sushi and noodle places. may or may not dress up like an asian, and likes to belt out asian pop songs in karaoke booths. this person usually works part-time as an ESL instructor, or has friends that are, in order to hang out with asians.

A portmanteau of carpe diem, a Latin phrase that means “Seize the Day!” and DM, which stands for Direct Messages. This word means seizing the day via DMs.