EXTREMELY whipped, as in not being able to do anything without permission from your girlfriend. In general, being whiptidded means acting like you have no balls in front of your friends because you don't won't to upset your woman.

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.