user (n.) - a person who uses a friend or aquaintance
solely for the purposes of gaining a type of advantage;
whether it be:

1) when no one else is around, they need
someone (like you) to take them places

2) someone who doesn't include you in any activities that they have
with their friends, who you too, are friends with, yet
YOU would invite him or her in a heart beat

3) a person who completely ignores you when he or she
is with a group of people who may be cooler than you

4) a person who can call you ANYTIME and you would be there for them,
and yet if you try to call him or her, they will not pick up;
however, ONLY for using purposes he or she would pick up,
like if he or she needs a RIDE somewhere (yet they would pick up
their phone for any other person)

5) a person who constantly gives you excuses...when you know he or she is completely full of SHIT

and even after all this, this person still calls you their "friend"

A man who messes around with other men, but no one would ever know by looking or talking to him. Used by gay black men to identify masculine gay men or DL Brothas.

Someone who takes advantage of another's kindness or generosity. They pretend to be a friend but are only in it for what they can get out of it. A user takes and takes, rarely gives.

A person who will only talk to you when they need something.

A person who is only nice when he needs something.

People that are similar to players, but do not just fuck the chick but first abuse emotions to make them feel like they messed up after they get fucked n dumped. twisting used person's emotions around.

someone who toys with anothers emotions just to recive what they desire from that person