When someone makes a rational commentary that makes a person or organization to look very bad; but it doesn't use insults nor is racist nor homophobic, so the person or organization use the "toxicity" scapegoat instead of addressing the problem.

The phenomenon of having to come out as bisexual to the same person/people repeatedly because they assumed or hoped that your sexuality was a "phase." Refers less to the holiday and more to the 1993 Bill Murray comedy film in which the main character experiences the same day over and over.