the process of counting down from 5 in order to make a certain assumption if something is superduper gay.
the gay down:If you hug a friend that is also a male(assuming your a dude), you must count down from 5. Once it reaches zero, its totally turned from friendly to gay. If two hot women do such acts, it is considered super friggin hot, not gay.
by shauncollindixybots December 30, 2011
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the way to tell if sumbody is gay...

just šŸ¤šā¬‡ļø them.
gay 1: hey u šŸ¤šā¬‡ļø *the gay hand down*
bi 1: no i’m šŸ‘ˆā†•ļø

vibing in gay
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When a situation arrives that hinders one from participating in events they would normally attend, or would like to attend.

When a person has prior obligations that obscure them from attending an event with their friends.
Guy 1 - "Hey man you gonna make the concert this weekend?"

Guy 2 - "Naw man, doc said I can't leave the house with my broke leg. Really "gaying me down".

"My girlfriend said I can't go to the titter this weekend, really gaying me down over here."
by Pancer Man December 06, 2013
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