The act of getting obliterated by drugs or alcohol and/or persisting with the opposite sex. You may not have to get obliterated but you have to be using one of the two....or both

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.