It's a dick.

A man who messes around with other men, but no one would ever know by looking or talking to him. Used by gay black men to identify masculine gay men or DL Brothas.

A proclimation of defiance towards authorities or individuals giving out personal orders. It is a short swift way of saying "no I will not do this action because I don't respect you".

any piece of office furniture that has been walked on by a seagull.

(noun) A guy who is over 30 and never married, which makes him seem stale, moldy, asexual, dried up, obviously unmarryable, unattractive, spent, & like an old loaf of bread, way past his due date. This noun describes a male person in the same way a whole slew of derogatory & sexist nouns have been used historically to describe a female in the same boat (for ex.: spinster, old maid, hag, harpy, witch, crone, shrew, battleax, old bat, bag, nag, etc. etc. etc. Since the male-centric culture doesn’t have a version of the many derogatory words for such a thing, “strom” was chosen by a plurality of women, (members of the Red Lipstick Mafia,) because it makes one think of that crinkly, wrinkled old racist senator, “Strom” Thurmond. We are satisfied with this word “strom,” but hope to see many synonyms added, like the ones you can find in every dictionary, negatively & rudely describing unmarried and/or females, always with (derogatory) preceding the definition.