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a lesbian who identifies with both femme and stud personalities and dress in the lesbian world, her attitude and dress change to meet the appropriate ocassion, and she normally does not fall strictly into one category the other.
Joan was neither a stud nor a femme. Joan was a stemmie.
by beccab January 28, 2008
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v. collectively or individually finding someone/something to blame for a problem, as opposed to brainstorming which connotes finding solutions to a problem

n. the act of finding someone/something to blame for a problem

(from a TV ad for HD television)
The committee commenced blamestorming over the situation rather than seeking solutions to the problem.
by TBea April 22, 2008
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Someone whose intellectual capacity is limited to brain stem functions. Usually results in very short-sighted and selfish decisions.
"I feel bad for Bob, his life is one problem after another"

"Face it, he is a stemmie. He could not make a good decision to save his life."
by jfburke619 May 02, 2012
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Or "Stemjob" Used by people from Broken Hill. slang for stupid dumb idiot dopey silly foolish crazy
Don't act like a. Stemmie. You idiot. You're a Stemjob!. He was acting like a Stemmie and stuffed up.
by Chanzcesr March 20, 2018
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"DON'T GET ALL STEMMIE, BECAUSE YOU SEE THAT GIRL IN A BIKINI"
by TRUE MAINAH August 15, 2008
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