To spit or swallow after oral sex is actually a false choice, since these are not the only two options. In fact most girls (gay men as well) choose to swallow, or do not allow the man to come in their mouth at all. Very few intentionally take a load in the mouth only to spit it back out.

Briefly, "the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own." Originally from the Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows, which has a lot more beautiful neologism definitions like this you might enjoy.

when a girl gives head (blow job) and she either spits out the sperm or swallows it.

Term refering to what choice you make as to what to do with a mouthful of male love juice.

Contraction for "When performing fellatio does she spit out the seminal fluid or swallow?".

When using the word spit it means that you spit out the boys semen when it has filled your mouth. To swallow means to drink the semen. Swallow also means that you suck on boys dicks and you let their penis go deep into your throat.

this should be the first question in every male female relationship.