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When a confusedlesbian” finds a guy attractive but would never actually date him.
Lesbian1- “how do u identify?”
Girl- “oh ima spicy gay!”
Lesbian1- “what tf does that mean?”
Girl- “I would never date a guy but it’s fun while it lasts :) “
by headgamestronger October 22, 2020
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Large, beautiful breasts that are keep well consealed and initially appear to be much smaller and less impressive than they actually are until unleashed.
I think Alicia may have some real sleepers.
by KABT October 26, 2007
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When a lesbian, or male homosexual find the opposite sex attractive, but find's it repulsive to be in a relationship with said sex.

Basically, don't invalidate Homosexuals for feeling attracted to the opposing gender, there is nothing wrong with that. Sexuality is fluid, and theres always no such thing as "spicy gay" or "spicy straight" You're just queer, theres a Q in there for a reason. If you identify as "spicy gay": you 1000000% have parental problems, or internalized homophobia. Accept who you are, whatever that is. Gay, straight, queer, what ever. Just be who you are.
Girl: Hey I'm spicy gay!
Friend: Wtf does that mean...
Girl: It means, I'm a lesbian but Im attracted to men, but would never date one.
Friend: Oh, so your either queer or have major daddy issues... Makes sense.
by A random dyke February 22, 2021
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