An amalgamation of the words "sodomy" and "coitus", meaning "anal sex". The purpose of the word is to be able to refer to anal sex and still retain the satisfying feeling of saying the word "coitus" (which only applies to vaginal sex).

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.