I heard this saying in a movie I recently watched. "Let 'em have it" 1935 black and white film The gangster robbed a bank and wanted to launder the money but no one wanted the to do business with him and the gangster said I"ll show you I will get 80 cents on the dollar I will show you how to "shove that dough"

Wife: “Have you put the sheets out to dry and put the towels on?”
Husband: “Yes. You know I am a grown adult also used to live alone so you do not need to micro marrige me”