Something/someone that causes one to wonder "why?" or induces a facepalm-ish feeling. Difficult to describe, as its true meaning is entirely dependent on its usage. Because of this fluid meaning, syllables/vowels may be substituted for others, e.g. spangis, bungis, shmangis, etc.

Originally a variation on the term "dingus".

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.