1: to be enticed by charm or attraction into a predetermined course of events often held to be an irresistible power in which the victim is led astray usually by persuasion, predicated upon delusive promises and distorted reality leading to a point where the target is rejected or dismissed as contemptible and unworthy through a sequence of demoralizing vexations of pain and anguish of mind
2: to fall head over heals thinking you will be the one to get through and be the one that Mandra spends the rest of her life with, only to then end up broken and tainted for all other women for the rest of your life.
3: to be in a falsely committed relationship where the male is lead to believe that he is the one for Mandra and that he is the king of her castle, only to find out that he is not the one to ‘tame her shrew’
4: when a male (usually betwixt the ages of 16 and 45) is ready to give up on the entire female gender due as a result from any or all of the above

A buzz word being used to refer to creators and influencers forming or encouraging unhealthy relationships with their fans. Usually used in the context of young audiences feeling they have a relationship with the influencer due to the huge amount of the influencer’s content they consume. The influencer in question, however, is unaware of the fan’s existence other than the general knowledge of having fans. Common examples include Dream and his stans. These relationships are exacerbated by the influencers confirming they have more than a creator-to-viewer relationship.

The word is circulating due to various YouTube essays about the phenomenon using the word, and therefore people who enjoy complaining about influencers repeating what they heard in the video in any comments section they can find.

to be a hipster and then accuse someone else of being a hipster!!