Getting two or more people to hook up without participating.
His reffing paid off when Mark and Janet got it going in the bathroom stall.
by Mark Twain the Fifth May 22, 2016
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The act of getting absolutely LIT by consuming copious amounts of alcoholic beverages and, to a lesser extent, other paraphernalia.
Dude, Chad #REF!’d out last night after putting back 12 tequila shots. He yelled “I’m Front Office Faded” while getting kicked out of Lavo.
by djdsol69 March 01, 2018
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exclamation of excitement, surprise or annoyance. Used in all situations deemed to be worthy.
Person 1: shit dude, i just killed my hamster

Person 2: ref

Person 3: fucking huge ref

Person 1: huge ref
by 19silverton March 31, 2020
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Someone in Miami who recently arrived from Cuba, legally or illegally. Although, an immigrant and a ref are two very different things. Refs are loud, obnoxious and try to be as American as possible, failing miserably. A ref usually wears, Tight Jeans, Tight Shirts, Gucci, Designer Sunglasses, etc.
Yosmany: Gucci Gang!!! Was popping ?
Kevin: fucking Ref
by DustyCheeto May 05, 2018
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An immigrant abnormaly louder and annoying than regular people.
Speaks no English, or if so very little with a heavy Spanish accent.
Mostly found in Miami, FL.
"Damn that annoying ass ref, go swim back to Cuba!"
"Wow, that ref still has the salt water on his hair"
by MisterCity April 26, 2006
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Ref is a term in the game Team Fortress 2 for Refined Metal, the second most universal item for trading besides keys. It is made by using 3 scrap metal to make a reclaimed metal, and then 3 reclaimed metal to make 1 refined metal. Usually used in trading strange weapons and unique hats in-game.
Selling Strange Rocket Launcher for 2.33 ref.
by Genevis October 13, 2019
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