Rafmar is the type or girl who doesn’t give a fuck. She’ll punch someone if they mess with her friends. She isn’t afraid of getting in trouble. If she likes you, she can be the funniest person ever!
Daniela: OMG is that Rafmar?
Andrea: oh no, it is.
Daniela: what do you mean oh no, she’s hilarious
A man who messes around with other men, but no one would ever know by looking or talking to him. Used by gay black men to identify masculine gay men or DL Brothas.