(n.) a person who identifies as heterosexual but also has some degree of transgender identity issues creating an underlying homosexual persona (or the "gay guy trapped in a chick's body " paradox). Not to be used to describe someone who is mildly attracted to members of their same gender.

A portmanteau of carpe diem, a Latin phrase that means “Seize the Day!” and DM, which stands for Direct Messages. This word means seizing the day via DMs.