Derived from the phrase spill the tea and playing with fire, 'playing with tea' is used to describe a situation where someone is hiding the truth and playing games.

The phenomenon of having to come out as bisexual to the same person/people repeatedly because they assumed or hoped that your sexuality was a "phase." Refers less to the holiday and more to the 1993 Bill Murray comedy film in which the main character experiences the same day over and over.