A pick-me is a noun used to describe a person, typically a straight man or a woman, who does things to get the attention of an “opposite group”. If it’s a straight woman, they’d say misogynistic stuff and throw other women under the bus to impress a man. Usually they’ll also blame issues caused by men on women such as saying that r@pe is the woman’s fault, not the man’s. In a straight man situation they’d say stuff like “no one likes me” and “of course you leave me like everyone else does”.

This also applies for other groups such as LGBTQ+. An example would be if a group of straight people or a straight person would say something trans- or homophobic and the person of LGBTQ+ would go along with it to get the group or the other person to like them.

Pick me’s are not nice people, their one goal is to get other people to like them.

A woman who actively attempts to be picked for marriage. Often married by 25, the 'PickMe' women care about their image and know that their job is to be a good reflection of her man. The woman you picture in your head as a 'PickMe' is simply a twisted image of what a true PickMe is. This definition has been twisted by modern females who believe that they 'need no man'.

A teenage girl who worships the boys and will do anything in her will to be picked by them. these girls are very rare bc most of them are either the middle or younger child who wasn’t loved or just annoying and is looking for attention.

A pick me is someone who you are jealous of because they are always picked first, and people actually enjoy their company.

A guy who uses self depreciation in a manipulative way so a girl will date him. They will say bad things about themselves to try to get the girl to oppose what they’ve said.

a girl who goes out of their way to impress boys and make them seem that they're "not like other girls" kind of like a simp but for girls. otherwise known as; internalized misogyny. not the easiest to explain, but when you see one, you'll know she's one for sure. usually does this to be accepted by boys and be considered "one of the good ones" if you say one of these things, congratulations! nobody likes you ❤️