A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.
Pick me: If a man cheats on you, it's probably because you your fault. Be feminine! Make him food! Clean his ass hole!

Rational person: Shut up psycho
by 84848cheese December 01, 2020
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1. A person who begs for the attention, acceptance and approval of a certain group in different things they say. In most case, it's to attain the attention, acceptance and approval of the opposite sex.

2. Someone who enjoys & finds empowerment in doing things that make their significant other happy.
by Tymeros May 13, 2016
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the term “pick me” is a term used to refer to people who feed into narratives that are personally oppressive to them in an attempt to gain the approval, attention and/or validation of their oppressor. an example of this is a woman who puts down other women and feeds into misogynistic stereotypes in order to seem more appealing to sexist men in hopes of gaining their approval.
1. Becky always makes sexist jokes, makes fun of and shames rape victims, and shames other women when she’s around groups of men. Every time she’s around a guy- especially when she knows for sure he’s sexist- she will call other women dishwashers & go out of her way to put down the women around them with insults based in misogyny. She’s such a “pick me.
by casscafe April 27, 2021
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men and women, who say and do stuff, to seek validation from the opposite gender, via putting their own gender down.
Amanda just slut-shamed me in front of the guy I like”.. “ugh she’s such a pick-me
by Katja40 March 18, 2021
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A person who is trying to get a valid attention of the opposite gender + an attention seeker
Pick me boy: I really think that boys suck I mean all they think is about sex, I mean I am a boy but sometimes I hate being a boy sometimes I wish that I am a girl.
Not a pick me boy: Boy shut yo pick me ass up
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a pick me is a person who says unusual or outrageous statements for the validation of a race,gender,or other people.
A male pick me would say“If you paint your nails that’s so gay” looking for validation from his friends.
by massapickme420 January 27, 2021
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A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me
Pick me: If a man cheats on you, it's probably because you your fault. Be feminine! Make him food! Clean his ass hole!

Slightly rational person: Shut up psycho
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