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Pick Me Gay is better understood as the queer version of a simp — young men subservient to women in hope of winning them over.

A Pick Me Gay is also a form of Reply Guy — a man (and sometimes a woman) who inundates your mentions and DMs with overt familiarity, flirting, debating, educating and always demanding attention.
I always see Pick Me Gays show up in the comment section trying to defend the Instagay just because they have abs
by at tazonchicharos April 01, 2021
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Internet persona(s) who happens to follow you and you happen to follow them back and maintain communication with and have a mutual liking for eachother whether it be friendship wise, etc. (Mutuals if more than one mutual)
Monica: Oh yay! I made a new mutual today because we started following & talking to eachother on twitter and we like eachother (so it seems).
by qtheresurrection March 25, 2015
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