a nonbinary lesbian is a nonbinary female-aligned person who's attracted to women and female-aligned nonbinary people only. they are valid and amazing <3

Noun: a friend who is usually only called upon by a friend when a more primary/prominent friend is unavailable.

Taken from the term “second string” in an athletic competition situation. In football, if the star quarterback gets injured during a play, the second string is called off the bench to replace him/her. A “Second String Friend” is essentially benched until needed, if ever.

Synonyms: Plan B, Second Choice, Secondary Friend, Benched Until Needed

Someone who is nonbinary and a lesbian. Nonbinary people are included in every sexuality, including lesbian. They can either be woman aligned or not aligned at all! They're still lesbians either way and they're completely valid.

A nonbinary lesbian is a nonbinary person who is attracted to females. Also called trixic, orbisian, NBLW or feminamoric.

A non binary person who likes only girls. Yes, we exist and were allowed to call ourself whatever we want. AMAB's can call themselves non binary lesbians if they want to! :)

(Usually woman-aligned) enbies who like women and other (usually woman-aligned) enbies

Usually either refer to themselves as wlw or nblw

Many people tend to think this is an oxymoron and that calling a non-binary person lesbian is misgendering. However, that is wrong.

1) Non-binary is an umbrella term. Many non-binary people can still and do still consider themselves women. Non-binary is not a 3rd gender, and is just a term for anyone who doesn’t perfectly fit the binary of being either a man or woman. Some people identify as being both non-binary and being a woman.

2) Misgendering an enby only happens when they tell you it happens. You cannot automatically assume you’re misgendering an enby just because you use the term “queen,” or call then a “her.” There’s no right or wrong way to be an enby. Many enbies use she/her or he/him pronouns, or even refer to themselves as a mister, or miss.

3) Being a lesbian is already considered out of the binary, and gnc. Society defines women by their attraction to men. If you’re a woman not attracted to men, you’re considered an outlaw, or “not a true woman.” This belief goes back in time. Being a lesbian is, according to society, already not fitting the gender binary, and what is expected of being a “true woman” (reminder that this doesn’t mean that all lesbians fall out of the binary; after all, a majority of lesbians are binary whether they are cis or trans. However, it provides reason for why certain enbies are also lesbians.)

Nonbinary lesbians cannot be valid because Lesbian is a WLW term, since they are nonbinary that makes them not a woman