When you watch a recording of yourself getting a blowjob in first person virtual reality while you are receiving a blowjob from the same person. Extra points if the person giving the blowjob matches the pace of the video.

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.