Her life montra is I slay all day and am a boss: caring, sensitive, loving, empthatic, comforting, is a real diva , loves to be self-sufficient, loves making money, has to have the las word, unappolgically honest( some will take this as she is being mean but she's not meaning to hurt your feelings), straight forward, doesn't take critisim well, doesn't like to told what to do will tune out if don't like what your saying, haters motivate her, loyal friend to the end.

The two states of being are as a human being, or a hungry ghost. Semi-regularly you need to ask yourself which you are. Sometimes it is human. Others, alas, it is hungry ghost.

The hungry ghost seeks validity outside of themselves. Someone pining for an indifferent ex is a hungry ghost. Someone who arrives alone at 6:30 on Saturday night to a pub is probably a hungry ghost. Obsessive checking of mobile phones, chat sites or networks are clear signs that one is a hungry ghost.

The best thing to do is just stay home and ride it out. Read a book. Find some good clean fun.