Lyder is another way to saying luder

Its also a name, which is associated with being an absolutely incompetent good for nothing dickbag, he is also widely known to eat his own shit which is preferably still warm. He also sucks old socks from women because he enjoys the flavor of old women and dog shit mixed together, but this wouldn't be if it weren't for his tragic past of being turned on by every woman AND man he sees including immediate family members

A person with an outwardly dominant, masculine, or aggressive personality, but who also enthusiastically takes on the submissive or "bottom" role in the bedroom.