The essence of being an immodest,insensitive, asshole, opposite of “big-dick-energy”.

n. The birth name of somebody who has changed their name. Most commonly attributed to trans people, but can be attributed to any person who has changed their name. (sometimes written as two words: dead name)

v. 1. To call somebody by their deadname.
v. 2. To out somebody's deadname to the public.

something that people with big cocks can say to people with small cocks