When 2 people are spooning and there is no room for a third, the third person flops on top, thus making a ladle shape.
A key skilll to prevent being a third wheel on lazy hungover Saturday afternoons.

When you're spooning and he whips his dick out and shovesit up your anus/vaginal opening

When you spoon with a girl taller with you. The girl wraps her legs backwards around the big spoon, encompassing the man like a ladle.