to masturbate to the extreme or with extreme force after you have been said 'no' to

lil mad is like big mad but the opposite, you mad but not mad to the extent of pullin somthin

Meaning 1:Trying to diminish the problem of the situation by convincing the people that it ain‘t that bad.

Meaning 2: Trying to down play a bad thing so he/she wouldn‘t look bad if it comes out.