to masturbate to the extreme or with extreme force after you have been said 'no' to

A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.

Meaning 1:Trying to diminish the problem of the situation by convincing the people that it ain‘t that bad.

Meaning 2: Trying to down play a bad thing so he/she wouldn‘t look bad if it comes out.