a wasteman who is responsible for a blunder or error

A man who messes around with other men, but no one would ever know by looking or talking to him. Used by gay black men to identify masculine gay men or DL Brothas.

Meaning Penis.
cause the hamm rolled up looks like a willy.

This is when the man ejaculates into ham slices and sticks it all over the womans body. He then takes her to the top of the stairs, and pushes her down it. This is why it's called ' ham roll'

Spunking in a ham sandwich (preferably out of a Tesco meal deal) slapping it around a person or animals face and drop kicking them down the stairs.