haemin is the kind of person that if you don’t give a shit about her being mad at her then she will think your mad at her ( which you are but ) and then she will come back to you and then you’ll be friends again

The two states of being are as a human being, or a hungry ghost. Semi-regularly you need to ask yourself which you are. Sometimes it is human. Others, alas, it is hungry ghost.

The hungry ghost seeks validity outside of themselves. Someone pining for an indifferent ex is a hungry ghost. Someone who arrives alone at 6:30 on Saturday night to a pub is probably a hungry ghost. Obsessive checking of mobile phones, chat sites or networks are clear signs that one is a hungry ghost.

The best thing to do is just stay home and ride it out. Read a book. Find some good clean fun.

haemin is the kind of person that if you don’t give a shit about her being mad at her then she will think your mad at her ( which you are but ) and then she will come back to you and then you’ll be friends again