a graver is a goth mixed with raver, but in

1. goth + raver = mostly seen dancing at raves
Style: wide cargo pants with lots of pockets and material-strips hanging from sides, tight t-shirts, hair usually in dreads, or ponytails, or sometimes in some weird arrangment of ponytails, dreads and shaved sides, not to forget large boots beneath the wide pants, preferrably New Rocks or some platformed cybershoes, also large.
Colors chosen: all fo them, usually sticking to 2-3
Accessories: thin bracelets, and of course some nice sports sunglasses, red, blue, violet and reflective

2. industrial + raver = mostly seen at some sort of gabber/ hardcore/ darkcore/ terrorcore party, sometimes a GOA party as well.
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Colors: The preffered ones are not happy-go-lucky ones, as in pink, yellow, blue or whatever. Colors are preffered as in darker ones: red, military dark green, black, dark blue; or cyber-themed: one or two chosen colors that are neon and bright, that go in combination with prevailing black color
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Those that are generally more goth's than industrial fans, prefer going to goth clubs as well (meaning, ebm, synthpop, and so on), industrial types of ravers they either stic to darkcore, terrorcore, and if possible go to some harsh noise, industrial parties.

Sometimes a mix of an industrial + goth + raver is born. And thus is born the greatest party animal alive
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The examle of a graver, sadly the pants are barely seen
Take out the spaces only
by GraverGir November 29, 2006
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Someone who has attributes of a goth and a raver.
I'm so gravered-out with this corset and these furry legwarmers.
by Haiyaku July 30, 2005
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a graver is an interesting character who can be best described as a goth raver. theses gravers are usually not poser goths and they love to rave. normalvery happy around others they are willing to teach anyone how to properly rave and then laugh at you when you suck.
james is such a graver! always with those freaking photons. but hes awsome to hang with
by mercykillings May 30, 2005
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a goth that is a raver also
kids with glo sticks at a goth club are gravers.
by stereocrumb May 20, 2005
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1. A term used to describe a person that attempts to combine both the styles of A) goth and B) raver. Both styles being ridiculous you could see how this paring can prove to be disastrous. Gravers are usually self described as "creative".

2. Really shitty music. See: Graver's Paradise
If you're ever at Union Square you can see all the gravers sparring off by the George Washington Statue. I don't know which are worse: the bums, the junkies or the gravers.
by Venessa Nina April 14, 2006
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1 part goth, 1 part raver. You'll find one in the local "goth" club hepped up on crystal meth and water most likely dancing to EBM (E.B.M.).
Someone tell Aurora that candy jewlery doesn't go with fishnets. She's such a graver.
by gothrobot June 11, 2005
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The new type of goth music that seems to embrace all the mopeyness of regular goth music, but also adds the "thumpa thumpa"sounds of their raver cousins. Good examples of this music genre are Asembledge23 and VNV Nation.
"Damb graver music ruining a perfectly good night for stomping!"
by negativedreamers July 20, 2005
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